understanding vs. take for granted
attention seeking vs. attention needed
close grip vs. release
许茹芸once sang “不爱我放了我”。Why do we have to wait to be released? Why do we lock ourselves up with difficult wait-&-see whilst exit would have been much liberating not to mention humane?
checking in once in a while vs. sinking with the Titanic for decades
asking too much vs. reasonable concern
can't be bothered vs. i-thought-u-would-understand
I have to say, I do now understand when people told me so...
I need durians now!