Monday, May 30, 2005

My side of "i'm not that innocent" - reflection from Denpasar, Bali

The very heated topic that is probably unaware to the wild/sexually-deprived/nothing-better-to-do BB housemates locked down in the perhaps only-too-accurately-named Dreamworld.

Despite quite a number of angry and also neutral-and-calm Australians, whether or not the Indonesian judges have done a competent job and more generally the underlying motivation of the incident - DRUG TRAFFICKING, the truth is still lurking somewhere in the dark.

I just would like to share a few points with my frens and family who frequent the airport, esply in this Thai-Indo-Malaysia-Filipine area, which portrays a certain level of uneasiness about their justice system.

First of all, avoid too many pieces of hand luggages that would require more attention on them. Those travelling alone should be more aware of this. Don't leave your lugggage out of sight. Having said that, bring them together with you no matter where you go, even into the loo. Now I am a bit worried about my sister who's gonna travel back to Malaysia alone in winter.

Padlock your hand luggages if you must carry them. This would mitigate the possibility of drugs being planted into your hand luggages. And be vigilant. Corby's reason for not realising the additional 4.1kg was the strap of her bag was broken and she had to drag it. Come on, 4.1kg is a lot! Almost 1.5 a normal asian newborn baby (perhaps 1 Ausssie newborn baby).

Watch out for weirdos or anyone that looks threathening. Even if you must fall asleep, do it after you get onto the plane! I dunno if I would help someone to watch over their stuffs..wot if they are never gonna come back and leave me in some deep shit!?

Sigh the world is so unsafe. The weight of a 4.1kg of marijuana compared to the weights of losing family, frens, precious time, future, greater good possibly done by anyone - everything is lost for a few hours (or more) of numbing one's brain cells. There used to be an ad on TV about saying no to drug focusing on youngsters..I hope it's played more often.

And if Corby is really really innocent, the one who planted the drug in her boardie bag - would you surrender yourself? A girl's future is gonna be buried alive now..Well who am I kidding - s/he wouldn't have planted the drug if s/he still had some good in him/her?

If the truth is that she is guilty (which is what I am inclined to think of, even though claims have been flying around saying the Indonesian justice systems haven't done any justice) 20 years is really too light a punishment. There is a Chinese saying - Kill One to Scare A Hundred - the meaning is literal, death sentence would be my choice if I had to make one.

One not really related point and a selfish one - it is not necessary to donate to someone who doesn't appreciate. When the blade of knife backstabs into you, you don't even get the chance to moan.

Sunday, May 29, 2005

My housemate - Kah-hong...big-head-pic Posted by Hello

The gonna-b-in-the-UK girl - Pey-eing (it's pronounced as paying, yes she is paying). Posted by Hello

Lover vs siblings!! Posted by Hello

Melbourne newcomers - also a sibling pair: The Chuahs - @|f and Swee-san vs the Xings - Yi-xian and Yi-yong. Family rocks!! Posted by Hello

Han-kiong, @|f and Li-yen (we are the all BLACK suppoters!!) Posted by Hello

Seoul-ful (possible interpretations - soulful & soooo-full) night - JK, @|f & Swee-san Posted by Hello

Thursday, May 26, 2005

I nearly swallowed my tounge along with the runny chocolate Posted by Hello

chocolate molleux,yummmmm Posted by Hello

Wednesday, May 25, 2005

What Are The Keys To Your Heart?

The Keys to Your Heart

You are attracted to those who are unbridled, untrammeled, and free.
In love, you feel the most alive when things are straight-forward, and you're told that you're loved.
You'd like to your lover to think you are optimistic and happy.
You would be forced to break up with someone who was emotional, moody, and difficult to please.
Your ideal relationship is lasting. You want a relationship that looks to the future... one you can grow with.
Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment.
You think of marriage pessimistically. You don't think happy marriages exist anymore.
In this moment, you think of love as commitment. Love only works when both people are totally devoted.

What Are The Keys To Your Heart?

Friday, May 20, 2005

The whole duck before being sliced & devoured by us.. Posted by Hello

Alfred, Gretchen & Swee-san at Old Kingdom Posted by Hello

The duck b4 it went into our stomaches...the caption was a bit 'touchy',,,=P Posted by Hello

Yummy Peking Duck at Old Kingdom, Collingwood Posted by Hello

I Fleet I Flirt I Fleetly Flee I Flirt

Your Seduction Style: The Coquette
You are a pro at playing the age old game of hard to get.Your flirting style runs hot and cold, giving just enough to keep them chasing you.Independent and self-sufficient, you don't need any one person to make you compelte.And that independence is exactly what makes people pursue you.

Tuesday, May 17, 2005

Lost w/o You

Eelin and I lost something this evening... Well I suppose hers was more precious even though she didn't have to pay for it (not in the literal sense of course).

On the other hand, I was careless to loose my keys. Must have been the time while I busy munching tic-tac in Risk Theory 1 lecture, or busy talking in the honours lab or library. Will need to go to search high and low at the uni tomorrow. And hopefully I can find them so that I don't have to replace the security tag and the locks. Else the money I have been saving from tying my wallet would be going down the Yarra River.

Life isn't lived without a fair bit of randomness - by gaining and losing - be it people you love or stuffs you love. I don't want a submartingale form of life - martingale is good enough.

Sunday, May 15, 2005

do u remember who is this? Posted by Hello

Friday, May 13, 2005

i think this is quite nice a pic for ur wallpaper Posted by Hello

Worst Dream Ever!!

I failed AFM & APC!!!

Saturday, May 07, 2005

The Key To A Happy Relationship

Besides loving and trusting your spouse, supporting his or her personal goals and dreams may be key to maintaining a happy marriage, new study findings show.

"People feel happiest in relationships where they feel the other person helps them achieve their own personal goals," Maddux says.

"It's so easy to be blinded by physical attractiveness," Maddux added. Yet, individuals should evaluate what the other person is trying to accomplish in his or her own life and determine whether those goals are compatible with what they are trying to accomplish, he said.
His findings are based on a study of 117 married couples. Each couple member was asked first to list and rank 10 personal goals, such as obtaining a college degree, and then to identify the extent to which their marital relationship helped or harmed their pursuit of those goals. They also completed a relationship assessment, in which higher scores indicated increased marital satisfaction.

Overall, individuals who perceived themselves as having high levels of support from their spouses in their personal pursuits reported greater satisfaction with their relationship than their less-supported peers.

Maddux and co-author Dr. Marc Kaplan published their study in the Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology.

Further, those who agreed that they and their spouse were able to successfully work together to achieve shared goals, such as buying a home or having children, were also likely to report increased marital satisfaction, the findings indicate.

"When people are at the beginning of a potential romantic or close relationship they (should) think very closely about their own aspirations and whether the person will be supportive," Maddux said.

Friday, May 06, 2005

Doctors can't get into an apple farm, looking at how many apples are there. Posted by Hello

Sunday, May 01, 2005

Port Melbourne - shivering/trembling/shaking..we'd hv gone to tassie if we had the time!! Posted by Hello

They r hving a conference. Posted by Hello

My doggies... Posted by Hello


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